minnfenn ♥ 敏芬

Insensitive guys

gals are usually more sensitive than guys.
how true is it?
don't you guys think that gals are usually much more sensitive.
esp in a relationship, quarrals always end up with, why guys are so insensitive.
they don't know how we gals feel and always thinks that we are so troublesome/unreasonable/irritating etc.

and now after a stupid quarrel with my brother i begin to think, are we gals asking for too much.
probably a little too much but aint girls born to be loved or rather pampered.
but that's only to an extent.
my brother doesn't has any expression on whatever he says but he does has a gd temperament.
sometimes i really hate him like abcdegf
but most of the time i am thankful to have him as my brother.
then this lead me to think, gals are flickered minded too.

sometimes i wish he could be more understanding and slightly more sensitive.

do u think "a hungry man is an angry man"?
this statement applies to me.

i am very grateful to have two wonderful aunts whom i always complain about.
the ones who really care for me when i needed them.
be it lending a listening ear and cooking simple dish for me when i am sick etc.
they are the best aunts i could ever ask for.

and not forgetting my mum too. ((:

♥, yours truely

orientations.

didn't attend the orientation at sentosa for psychology students on tues.
thinking that i'll feel out of place, don't know for what reason.
i think i've missed out lotsa fun.

on wednesday.
met quite a number of people during the sch orientation, or rather make new friends,
and when i asked if they went on tues, almost all the locals did.
they were like saying hi here and there whereas i have to go around n ask for their names.
the orientation was kinda screwed up though.
i was there practically the whole day from 9am-6pm
choosing my module, discussing with fellow friends,
that took us 3 hrs.
finally i'm able to settle down with Jude, future-classmate. ((:
to add on, MOST(like 3/4 of the locals) of them speaks english.
eg, most chinese-speaking singaporean(including myself) pronouns as maths but they pronouns as ma-th.
or three they pronouns as th-ree.
anyway, only 40% of the psychology students were locals.
afterwhich, headed for volleyball trainning
played for half an hour only due to bad weather.

on thursday.
headed back to school at 1pm.
for some academic writing which was delayed for an hour.
which means it suppose to start at 2.30pm it starts at 3.30pm.
as many locals didn't even come to school, a few of us decided to grab some books and go off.
bought a psychology book which is ~~freaking~~ so heavy, cost 68 bucks.
left and headed to anchor point followed by ps to celebrate wy's and mag's belated birthday.
it's been so long since the 4 of us meet up togehter.
took lotsa picture cause we wouldn't know when will be our next meet up. LOL.
i suppose all of us enjoyed ourselves very much.

though the 4 of us haven't been meeting up like 1-2 years.
the feeling reminds. ((:
i do treasure friendships.

i'mwaiting~~anixously~~patientlyforsundaytocome.
<3

♥, yours truely

ORD - 18/10/08.

yes. finally ORD from my aunt's office.
will have to be back for reservist when my bro goes to Melbourne for his futher studies.

this week will be the orientation week and sch will be starting on the 28 of October.
by the way, deepavali has changed from 28 to the 27 October. take note! ((:

went to watch 20th century with boy n wei ming.
ming n i fell asleep during the movie.
onli boy enjoyed it.
=/

ialwaysenjoyyourcompany.
lookingforwardtoallbookoutdays.
iwillwaitforyoutillthedayyouORDandcelebratewithyou.
((:

♥, yours truely

family & friends.

The 2 most important groups of people we all need. ((:
treasure them well.

had dinner with most of my cousins together with my big aunt today.
it's been quite a while since we gathered together.
we are no longer as close as before, but there is one thing for sure we will never become stranger.

like i have said before,
ilovefamilygatherings.

have not been meeting up with my friends lately due to work.
i'm sorry.
i do miss u guys.

anyway i hope all of u are doing fine.
meet up soon! ((:

♥, yours truely

love, we all need.

at a certain part of your life,

have u ever felt lonely,
have u ever felt useless,
have u ever felt that no one understands u,
have u have felt that everything is going against your way,
have u ever felt that y are others having a wonderful life but not u,
have u ever felt that whatever u did is never right,
have u ever felt that maybe u shouldn't be born in this world,
there will be a never ending list.

all of the above came across my mind not once but many times.

but if u are able to sit down n think.
others might be worse than u.
yes, there might be people who, most of the time are happy
that's because they solve problems and not running away from it.

cold war with bro.
i think there's a problem with me.
or rather both party.
i hate to be ordered around.
i hate to rush around.

signing off.

♥, yours truely